During my days on these Earth, I've seen couples break up, friends lose each other and family driven apart because one can't make a right decision, or one makes a decision he/she end up regreting.
Human beings tend to desire their own happiness, their partners' happiness or they just wanna stay together. People tend to prioritize these desires.Sadly, we find these desires are collinear in an happy-ending fairy tale, but in the real life, they rarely are.
Knowing that, we might say that there are three types of people;
-Type A: He/She whose first desire is his/her own happiness. SELFISH ?! NO, because everyone deserves to be happy and we are not living in a kind world where everyone will care about you.
-Type B: who puts the integrity of the relationship above all else. I know what you are thinking .. old married couple .. with kids .. arranged marriage. However, there are people who just wanna settle down, tired of being single or just love the idea of being in a relationship. Those guys tend to last the longest, but if they end up with an A, they are screwed.
-Type C: The Knights .. who are not afraid of declairing the fact that they can sacrifice .. they want to .. and only in a perfect world is everyone a knight.
Now go and have a small take with your partner about the shape of your relationship :)
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